Hi seaglass71, No, my DBcoach didn't tell me to send the letter & I didn't ask for advise here either (which I have in the past). It was a reaction - instead of action. My DBcoach didn't think it was that bad. I didn't blame him - I blamed us & said what I needed.

You are freaking out, because it is uncharted waters. But it isn't the end & don't view it as that. View it as a wake up call & a chance to show your W you have changed.

Are you going to try & talk to her? What are you going to say? I'll check back later.


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)