T2L - Ok....he texted at 12noon so I didn't text back till 2:45pm and I said:

"just got ur msg. i 4got about having 2 pay a deposit 4 the water/waste svc. Sorry...wish i could help u but i cant right now."

His response: "ok...thanks anyway.."

Was that good or could I have done better? I really do have to pay a huge deposit to turn my water on at the new place. I'm not about to sacrifice myself for him when he isn't caring about me or his daughter.

I have to keep reminding myself he is in a fog....it's just so sad for the kids....that is what makes me mad and sometimes gives me the feeling to just forget it...but I know...I have promised myself as well to make it to 6 months like you if he doesn't pursue the D. My 6 mo mark will be in February. The 120 day mark for the D papers is in January.

There is an LA fitness right across the street from where I live. I thought about checking into it because I would like to do aerobics classes or something to that effect.

Me35/H35
D16/SS14
M-1yr/known H 18yrs
1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35
2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21
Moved out 8/21/08
H filed D on 9/9/08

God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.