Yes, I meant it precludes open and honest communication, at least for all of us here whose partners had left and we werent with them and there were OPs on the scene. I think DBing does take two (someone to DB!) and that eventually, yes, you need to break the tyranny of NO R TALKS! and have some.
Sounds amazing Kalni, everything you once dreamed of. Imagine what a better R you could have now, than you did before. Interesting that he asked you to change a few things too, shows he is really committed and not afraid to be honest.
I know you say you still arent sure, but I am thrilled for you, Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread