Thanks for the support everyone. I so need it!!! There won't be any issues regarding moving to another state. STBX is moving next year to where I am wanting to go anyways because of military orders. We lived there for 5 years before. I built quite a support system there. Also, the economy is alittle bit better there than where I live now and where my family lives. As long as he okay's me moving there with the kids, there won't be a problem. In our last judgement from before, it was in there that me and the kids would be allowed to move there. I'll be moving about 2 hours away from where he will be. So even if the courts give me issues about it, I have a good argument for it. I have more opportunity to better myself there so I can provide a better life for my children. Also, they will be 2 hours from their father instead of 3.5 days away. The state I live in now SAYS they will base the decision on...whether it would be beneficial to the children financially, emotionally and physically. Along with if it would be inhibiting or encouraging a relationship with the other parent. And as long as the other parent agrees with it. Thanks for looking out for me ellie!!! I've definitely gotten better feedback from here than on the other board. That board was great for me while I was still in that sitch. But given the sitch has changed... Thank you so much for the welcomes!! I definitely need the encouragement! needlove, how have you been able to do it still living in the same house? I'm a great actress, but I think we would always be at each other necks! I give you kudos!!!
Me- 29 X - 30 M - 7.5 years Final April 2009 S - 2005 D - 2007
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