Thank you, what you say makes alot of sense, and so I have to try and remember that.
Things are going ok, we are still dialoguing which is good, some hard stuff, some easy stuff, which I think works best. H emailed me yesterday and asked if I still loved and wanted him, he said he needs to hear that I do. So he is obviously very insecure too.
On a lighter note:
My D16 is taking a parenting class in school, and had to bring home one of those fake babies, so she has had it for one night! My H get a call today from her teacher saying she was begging them to take the baby back!! 1 night! wow! if only I could have done that!!! It had her up every 2 hours during the night, and D loves her sleep! I hope she will remember this! and not think that having babies is all sugar and dress up! I think this is a great thing for kids to do to give them a taste of what its like!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!