Do you ever wonder what that feels like: to act with no conscience, no fear, complete detachement, seemingly doing whatever you please, regardless of who it hurts? It must feel very liberating, at least in the short term. It certainly gives the WAS/Adulterer a tactical advantage regarding the balance of power in the troubled marraige, especially if the LBS wants to keep the marriage together.--Theoden
Sure, it's like the North Koreans, or the Chinese: must be easy to govern when you don't have to worry about that pesky little thing called "Public Opinion" hanging over you!