I'm so proud of you for working on you and making yourself healthy! You have made it a habit for yourself and that is so powerful. They say habits are very hard to break once you have established them! This is what I desperately need...a habit or a hobby or a salsa dance lesson like T2L is doing!! I just haven't taken the time or made the effort to look. Too many other things going on...I will as soon as we are settled in the new place.
What breaks my heart the most is how my D16 won't talk to H at all. But then again he makes hardly any effort to talk to her. I actually told him last Tuesday to call her even though she won't answer but at least she knows he cares. What does he do? He texts her. That was the last text she got. Then I was so upset on Sunday. His son came by the house to visit. H had dropped him off at his friend's down the street so he wanted to come by and say hi and see my daughter. While he is there H calls son to pick him up. Why could he not call to stop by and say hi to his daughter? I was amazed. It was pretty sad that he could not stop in for 5 mins. OW must have been with him since he knows not to bring her to my house.
All - welcome aboard! I believe you have taken the right approach. Work on you and then plan for your holiday trip. You have the opportunity to make your 180s more powerful being that he is still at home with you. Take that opportunity and run with it!
My H called me at lunch today. I did not answer! I am listening to you T2L!!! Then he sent a text message asking for help in getting started with another RE company. In other words he needs $$....I am saying NO!!!! But in a polite way of course. I'm dropping the rope. It is time for him to sink or swim.
Me35/H35 D16/SS14 M-1yr/known H 18yrs 1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35 2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21 Moved out 8/21/08 H filed D on 9/9/08
God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.
