Truth is, I have no attraction toward her right now; it's merely a desire for her to be happier and stay home so that the kids do not have to suffer. I care for her; but I'm not sure that I EVEN love her like I used to. I can see where it would be so easy to drop the ILYBINILWY speech. That's what I feel right now. But I still feel that love is a decision and if she was willing to make that decision; I probably could as well.
I feel the same way. All I associate with her is hurt. How do you love, or even LIKE someone who represents pain to you?
