LIS, if the trailer brought tears to your eyes, then youtube the Darren Barfield song Love is not a fight. Click on the black box and hit play. Grab a box of kleenex and read the lyrics. It is from the movie also.
I got lucky because the movie is playing in Bellingham, just across the border. I have to see it again. We are trying to get it brought up to Canada. If it doesnt, you will probably have to wait until the new year to see it on dvd.
For now, try and find facing the giants if you already havent seen it already. Thats a good one to.
Joe
M: 37 WAW: 35 D's: 9 & 7 M: 13 Bomb: 01/28/08 Status: Limboland Total bomb drops: Lost count! Support: Here, God above, and now the Love Dare
Hey. Not much going on presently. W still out. House is very pleasant.
We have 2 vehicle - an 03 Trailblazer (registered in W name) that I generally drive and an 08 Saturn (registered in my name) that W drives. I like the 08 and was looking forward to driving it while she was gone. BUT - no keys. Thought she had taken them with her. Ended up finding them in a hiding place.
So I took it to get a copy made - all I needed was the key code to get a copy anyway.
Childish - frickin childish.
W wants the Saturn - sure, along with the 875 lease payment...
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
During my wife's affair during the summer of '07, she was driving a two year old BMW 530, and I was driving a 2002 Acura with 140,000 miles on it. Once her affair was out in the open, and our relationship was at its worst, I took to driving the BMW (whose 700/mo. lease payment I paid for) occasionally, "just because." She didn't let on that it bothered her, but I know it did.
The best story I have was the day that I followed her and watched while she met up with her boyfriend in a department store parking lot. It was raining, and they sat in her car for almost an hour (damned tinted windows!), and then got out, locked it up, and got into HIS beat up old truck, and drove off to his house (his parents' house, actually, as he lived with his mom and dad).
I was FREAKING OUT, complete with an anxiety attack (one of three I got during her affair), and needed to be talked down off the ledge, so to speak. Using a bit of humor, I think, to calm me down, the poster from the SSM board who ws helping me, NOP, asked me if I had a spare key to her BMW. I think this was his wife's idea, actually. "Yeah, I think so," I said, "but it's at home."
"How far away is your house from where you are?" he asked."
"Oh, only about five minutes," I said.
"Go home and get the spare key," he advised. "Then drive to the parking lot where her car is, park yours near there, leaving your key for her under your mat and the door unlocked. Then take HER car and drive off. When the love birds get back from their midday rendezvous, all aglow, she'll see your car, hers gone, and know she's BUSTED and you'll totally ruin it for them."
Sometimes, you just gotta see the game in it, or else you'll go crazy. Puppy
03 is perfectly safe (only 64K miles on it) - needs some body work after a collision a couple weeks back (no safety issue), but it goes in for that on Th this week.
Yup... GAME ON!
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
when we reconciled 3 years ago I bought W a Prius. When I told her to leave the house in August I took her key to the Prius and let her have the 7 year old minivan which is paid for.
when we reconciled 3 years ago I bought W a Prius. When I told her to leave the house in August I took her key to the Prius and let her have the 7 year old minivan which is paid for.
Then in front of her I gave the key to D17.
No more need be said!
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
when we reconciled 3 years ago I bought W a Prius. When I told her to leave the house in August I took her key to the Prius and let her have the 7 year old minivan which is paid for.
