I'm new here too. H got served his papers last Friday and we are still living in the same house.
It's been roughly two years since the "my feelings have changed," "I don't love/want you" statements. I've finally accepted that he moved on with his life long ago. It is difficult, but life goes on.
You've got good goals for yourself. I think the majority of us here want to have/find that relationship that takes us porch.
Keep the positive attitude!
Me 35 H 41 M 10 years Together 12 years D,6 SS, 17,19
