And I look forward to the day when H feels some consequences, because I truly don't think he has until now. It boggles my mind to know that he's actually received sympathy for his situation from friends and colleagues, because of the pain he's experiencing (they seem to forget the pain he's causing !) The few sessions of "MC" we did several months ago--which were all about easing the way for D12--were quite painful because the MC seemed to consider H a victim. Of what, I'm not sure.
Some people sure have that innate ability to garner sympathy for whatever cause they may be touting at any given time. Your H sure seems to have that skill and then some. He has the gift of the gab as they say. Which is why you need a L with that skill too, to speak for you and not be influenced by your H.
No matter how your H feels about you --- he does have to remember that you are the mother of his daughter. And hurting you, is hurting his daughter. Even the town idiot can figure that one out. So his "I can't keep doing this" is the same as saying it to his daughter. Way to go, 'dad'.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
