Dear Oldtimer,

I did just that. The L said it didn't matter what he wrote in the memo portion. He is legally responsible for his 1/2 as he signed the mortgage contract. The L has a copy of the check in my file.

After talking with L, I wrote it out to the bank and sent it along. Left H a "copy for his records."

Seems H likes to hide where he leaves checks for me. Asked for his 1/2 of the auto insurance and it was put on top of the coffee pot. Something we don't use until Sunday.

I feel like I am dealing with a 4 year old. All these games. It's like mental gymnastics.


Me 35
H 41
M 10 years
Together 12 years
D,6
SS, 17,19