I'm so sorry to see your sitch has progressed so negatively. I'm so sorry. I'm glad to see you are taking some steps to protect yourself and your kids. I understand the fear, especially after being a SAHM, but you cannot let fear rule you right now. He needs to see that you are strong, capable and independent. GAL like crazy, protect yourself, and make YOU the priority right now, not him or the marriage. I know that is incredibly hard, but I'm worried about you.
Chris
__________ Me:39 H:39 D:8 D:4 M:9 (T 13) Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08, Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09 Still doing GREAT a year later!!!