here is a little secret. us girls tell eachother EvERyTHING. Every nitty gritty detail. And we tell the truth! We are actually dirty little creatures!
My therapist told me that recently too! I had a poor experience with a female at work re that dating thingy and I told my therapist that I chose not to discuss it with anyone else in my workplace. She said "If you were a female you'd be at every other female's door in your work place, telling everything and looking for support" Hmm, I thought it was just bad taste to spread that stuff around. Btw, the Palm sisters keep everything private, they're very close fisted about these things.
I've also heard that the Palm sisters love Sol because he can give them pretty little butterfly tatoos. Ya gotta use the gifts that God gave ya, Sol!
So true. Well I do get to flirt a lot when I use my artistic talents - so I'm thinking of taking up glamour photography and use my place as the studio spot! HA! I just thought of that!
But it's weird that many of the good ones are hard to find - and I also attract all the psychos! I was sorta dating this long distance chic but her 3 divorces and many loser-type ex-boyfriends kinda tell me to stay away from her! Just a slight hint!
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
Hmm, I think the problem was Sol that we didn't recognize that our W's were psychos until we were well into the M. Now, if you can see a woman is a psycho up front then you've won half the battle already. Just keep a Taser handy and the other half should be a breeze! It'a all in how you look at things.
Pretty much any woman that marries us and then dumps us for someone else! I believe it's a category in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders. I could be mistaken of course ...or maybe I should just crawl back under my rock and hide!
Hey, come to think of it, this is Sol's thread so why am I answering that question about Psycho's? I'm just a drive-by sh!tdisturber. You're on your own Sol!
Well I've been under a rock, its very cozy and robust down there and I never have to do dishes or vacuum the dirt! For me, a "psycho" would be any woman that adores me one day and then utterly despises me the next - or within a very short time span - for no apparent reason that we as men can decipher on this God's green earth. It's all in how you treat or get treated that is the reason for someone to be classified a "psycho". A classic example of a psycho = bipolar, at least to me!
But then again it's just an easy way for us to describe our ex's!
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
In all seriousness, I wouldn't really call my W "Psycho". I work with people with mental illness and none of those people ever chose the diseases that have torn their lives apart. My W made very poor moral choices and because of those choices others lives have been impacted terribly. I wouldn't excuse her behaviour by calling it some kind of mental disorder, it was poor character...end of story.
We all have issues and baggage we carry from early in life and our old relationships. I try to have a civil relationship with the x, and avoid any nasty talk. My daughter sees everything, and she looks to me as a role model of what a man is supposed to be like and treat women. I'm trying to be a good father to her. But I also need to re-learn how to be a good partner for someone too.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
