Just one question for you. I assume you are planning to move home to where your family is? Have you investigated the legal issues around that? I'm under the impression that in most states, the father can keep the mother from moving out of state with the kids.
Others here may have some suggestions for ways around that, but I think you should get yourself some legal advice right away.. Also, go grocery shopping and stock up on canned goods and toiletries if you can.
Your H sounds like a real piece of work, who has found an OW who is just as slimy as he is (that whole faked pregnancy and miscarriage thing - yuck! WHY do men fall for that garbage????).
You CAN and WILL do much better in your life. Honest.
