Hi Confused Was just scanning the board, I am not really on here much anymore, but came across your thread, You sound like an amazing woman who really has her act together already! Good for you!! It takes a lot of us, a long time to get where you are now.
My ex left 6 yrs ago, D 2 yrs, and I am now what you say living my life for me, w/ a wonderful fiance, my S settled in college and , well a few things i need to iron out like a better job! lol but hey works in progress right?
Enjoy your time here on S, I have met some of the most wonderful people here and I know you will too, You have a great attitude!
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life