Thanks for the link it has some excellent stuff! Interesting what you said about the childhood. My W's father is only her stepfather and she never knew the birth father (she calls him the sperm donor)Her step father was a workaholic and has been suffering from depression for 6 years. He apparently hit her and her siblings when they were young. They all blame the mother for not leaving him. The list goes on but I guess this is consistent with what both of you have experienced.
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June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me
