I was talking with a friend yesterday and she mentioned that her exH was a drummer in a band and how she would have to occassionally tell the women (especially waitresses) to back the heck off.
I felt like she might have told me something important.
*Way back in Jan of 07 he had said he was afraid he would cheat because "you know how women are with the lead singer of a band". (He was not in a band at that point; he still kind of isn't given they have never played anywhere.)
*He has said he wanted me to be sassier, not so wimpy
*Now he has brought up that girl flirting with him and me not doing anything about it

Is testing me to see if I would fight for him if his band ever does play live and a girl hits on him? Or is him complaining about that just another red herring?

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing