Also, JAG can still do things even tho we will be in civilian court. They can write letters to his command if he does not support his family. JAG informed me that because we are still married and have 2 children together, he is required to give me 3/5 of his income. If he doesn't, I contact JAG, they write a letter to his command informing them he's not supporting his family. He gets in trouble, I get money for groceries. Military always takes care of their own, even if the spouse is not. My children will always be taken care of by the military, insurance, and such. No matter what H decides to do. And if he refuses, I contact JAG. Even after our D. At that point, it goes on his service record and it will affect future promotions and such. I would never do that because he is not letting ME have something, like spousal support or something. But if he's holding out on money for groceries for his kids because his GF wants something, I will contact JAG. Even if they end up getting married, his children come before she does.
Me- 29 X - 30 M - 7.5 years Final April 2009 S - 2005 D - 2007
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