I keep thinking, Did I hurt him sooo much that he has to continue to wreck so much havoc and pain in my life? When is it enough? I lost our "family"(though the kids and I are pretty happy as we are now), my best friend, my marriage, I was humiliated, ran though the wringer a couple of times and now...now he is set on this. Maybe I am not as nice a person as I thought or maybe I should change my name to Job.
kat
Right. Do you think I deserve what my H is putting me through??? Shoot, I know I don't deserve the H I have now and neither do you!!! They are messed up, seriously messed up and need intensive long-term counseling I think. Can you try to get an accountant friend or something that will help you deal with your H maybe. He sounds maybe toxic and you just have to try to avoid dealing with or discussing or being around people like that (my C says and I agree). So I'm thinking about just barely talking to H anymore, just hi and bye and that's it. Anything else, talk to the lawyers or I'm just going to ignore it if possible.
I almost agree about the Job thing, but we do have wonderful healthy kids and this has brought us together even closer and sounds like your sitch too. We've made some great friends here. Once the toxic ex-Hs are out of our life, I think our lives will be so much better than they have been for a while. ((((Kat)))))
