Ok, I emailed just the first part of that email, the 1st paragraph. H emails me this am: the kids may have to stay with me during the winter. that would enable you to work full time and make all the repairs to the house you want.
Tell me if you think its a safety issue so i can make arrangements to have the kids all week(or more if you want) for the winter.
OK, I think he's evil or crazy at this point. I talked to the only school around here that takes special needs/dyslexic kids they said they have had some with autism as well but would test them to see if they could even take them. $1300 for testing and then 13,000 - 16,000 a year and we have the 2 children, so I'm figuring about $30,000. You can't even get a $30,000 job here with a college degree most of the jobs full-time are around $25,000 so how I would be able to have extra $$$ to pay for repairs beats me.
I took this to my L right away. She said not to respond to it. She's going to email his L and advise him if H tries to get the kids we'll set an emergency hearing before the Dec. 3rd date.
I've got a job interview with the Art Center tomorrow at 10am. I feel kind of weird going for a job with all the crud going on in my life, but guess I can't help that.
The good news is I got my haircut today--she cut off 5 or 6 inches it was really long and is now a little bit above my shoulders, kind of looks like a bob. I'm still in shock, but I do think it'll be good for job interviews.