T2L - I am guilty of responding to every call, text, etc. I know I have to stop. I did feel as though he wanted me to do something for him because of his situation. There is no way that I could even if I wanted to. I am in a tight position myself and my daughter and cousin's well being as well as my own come first.
I can't believe your H lived in a car just to be close to OW? That is amazing.....sometimes I wonder if that is what will come about in my H situation. He is very close to it... all for what? This OW is 21 and is no way a mother at all nor is she a real woman for that matter.
Hope - We are very much the same.... I also did everything, cooked, cleaned, worked, paid all the bills, you name it I did it. Even the yard work at times!!!! I just did too much and he expected it.
I pray for my M every day. I have also been praying for God to free OW from this adulterous relationship. To put someone in her path so that she is free to love them unconditionally. To show my H the wrongs he has done and to open his heart to what is true.
I want to start over. I want to start a new relationship with my H. I want our M to be a loving and trusting M that will last a lifetime.
Me35/H35 D16/SS14 M-1yr/known H 18yrs 1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35 2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21 Moved out 8/21/08 H filed D on 9/9/08
God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.
