I know my saying what I did may come off as extreme to some if not most. One of my major contributions to the seperation was I never voiced myself. I always kept to myself in fears of getting her upset. Another is as I slipped away from her, it wasn't just her, but the entire family, so for me to show pure concern for my kids was a complete eye opener, not selfishness.
Whats one of our steps in the program? Do a 180*. That is one of my 180*s and guess what, as scary and wowing as it may be to your stich, it helped mine. W has pretty well now flat out said, she wants to straighten things out and does not want to file for D!!!
She's calling me now, so I'll finish up later!
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11