"I needed to hear from him if he was really done..so I can move on..."
You don't need for him to make up his mind. You DO need to decide to go on with your life. If you do, you will be in a better place to reconcile if he changes his mind later. He needs to think, really feel, what its like to lose you !!!!! Don't press him to make dramatic statements like this bc I think that it makes it harder for him to reconsider if he changes his mind later.
Sandy, this is EXACTLY what I've been trying to tell you for several weeks. This should NOT be HIS decision, it should be YOURS. He has forfeited his right to make it his decision by his repeated infidelity, and destructiveness toward your feelings!
