She's searching for a way out!

[lost_in_space]

Tom,

I agree with 54. You should look at doing what you need to protect your K's.

W is absent from the K's lives. And not coming home is, in my view, a sign of abandonment. My W did that once (after a glass of wine tossed in my face). I noted it and it hasn't escalated into anything else yet. If you are concerned, do what you think is the right thing.

Pretty sad when the kids start becoming the pawns in the chess game.