No...it wasn't out of the blue.. we had been texting throughout the day.
I had asked him to take the rest of his stuff from the closet when he was here on Sunday. He had said the rest of the stuff was goodwill.
I had asked him to let me know if this is really it..if you have not read..my husband has gone back and forth the entire 7 months. I get my hopes up..then he leaves again. I needed to hear from him if he was really done..so I can move on...