I guess what I was hoping for was a clear indication that H felt like things were going well, rather than everything being immediately resolved. I would rather have things resolved in a slow and steady way than suddenly make a decision that everything is OK, without addressing any issues.
I do think me being non-communicative might be counter-productive. On the other hand, he is not bringing up anything either, and he knows how I feel in general, so I am not sure whether me bringing things up is also counter-productive and/or pressuring. If I make him talk about his feelings, he seems to tend toward the negative.
Maybe Friday then, if nothing comes up before, I will suss out the vibe and see if there isn't a way to have some kind of meaningful conversation. Just knowing him, he is likely to bring something up on IM/email before then. He's online today, and has already IMd me, but only about household chores etc.
In your opinion is Friday a good day for these kinds of conversations?
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
