Following up on my last post about the need for counseling.
I failed to explain that my C thinks my H needs a C for the purpose of exploring his past relationships and experiences as well as learning coping skills.
The coping skills I agree with, it's the intensive and sometimes lengthy process of exploring the past that I question.
My H has so little time and patience as it is, going through that kind of mental shake down might just be the nail that seals the coffin confirming that counseling is not for him.
I would think that his time would be better spent working in a forward motion.
