The DB is starting to work a little! By withdrawing and focusing on your life and being happy, it will likely draw him back toward you more. You are not a doormat- the doormat would be clingy and trying to do things to please him(which usually pushes people away). Through DB, you're moving the opposite direction- pulling away so that he may be attracted closer again, and so that you are happier too. As for the night out, definitely take him up on it. Plan something fun and be mysterious about it! Maybe something where you can dress up a little- show off? Be vague about where you're going too. \:\)

Last edited by Loving_Life; 10/28/08 07:48 AM.
DBer since 2003
D - 3/24/09
GAL and DBing for myself