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Some dreams could be meant to tell you something. Of course dreams can be very odd. I remember reading how Joseph would read very confusing dreams that would come to pass the way he said they would. You don't happen to have a Joseph, do you?

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MMF, Thanks. You're always witty. Been reading your thread some. Seems like there are some good interactions going on with your xW. I am glad about that. Hope you have a great weekend too.


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mmmm - I had yet another dream last night - my H and parents-in-law were in the dream. Things seem pretty normal, except we were talking about God and something biblical I think. I just think it's strange that I am dreaming so much these past 3 months about my H's parents, compared to hardly anything for 2 years!!


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Ph sounds interesting. The biblical stuff, could that be some message from God. I have had a few dreams about my h too of lately.


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PH,

Now I'm not only dreaming of my xH almost nightly...now he's invading my naps too!

I took a half hour nap today -- and dreamed that my xH took me to lunch. At the end of the meal, I put some coins (3 quarters and other odd change) out to pay for the tip. But it turned out my xH had already paid the bill. He'd clearly arranged to pay the bill ahead of time -- as the bill never even came to the table. My xH had taken care of all the details ahead of time.

My dream dictionary says:

COIN
Needing to make a choice, heads or tails
Coins may symbolize an imminent change in your life


I'm sure that there's symbolism in that dream... "tip" -- "coins" -- "change" -- "ahead of time." Perhaps it was to illustrate and remind me that that is how God handles things -- that He arranges things ahead of time. That we don't have to concern ourselves with the details b/c they are already taken care of for us.


I don't know why we're both so often dreaming of them...but I do know that since biblical times -- God has used our dreams to convey His messages.




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PH:

Just wanted to say thinking of you.

Since I am not one to really dream, let alone remember if/what I dreamt, I really cannot comment.

Hope things have settled down with the neighbor as well.


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glam,
Yeah, there might be something to it about the biblical teaching in my dream. I have been thinking lately of the movie Fireproof in relation to my in-laws and my H. My MIL loves romantic movies. I have been hoping that they went to see the movie. I think they need the movie for their own M.

And I have also been praying for them and my H's family the past few months - for God to bring them to Himself.

I hope your dreams of your H were good ones. ;\)


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Originally Posted By: SUMMER
Now I'm not only dreaming of my xH almost nightly...now he's invading my naps too!

I took a half hour nap today -- and dreamed that my xH took me to lunch. At the end of the meal, I put some coins (3 quarters and other odd change) out to pay for the tip. But it turned out my xH had already paid the bill. He'd clearly arranged to pay the bill ahead of time -- as the bill never even came to the table. My xH had taken care of all the details ahead of time.

My dream dictionary says:

COIN
Needing to make a choice, heads or tails
Coins may symbolize an imminent change in your life

I'm sure that there's symbolism in that dream... "tip" -- "coins" -- "change" -- "ahead of time." Perhaps it was to illustrate and remind me that that is how God handles things -- that He arranges things ahead of time. That we don't have to concern ourselves with the details b/c they are already taken care of for us.


I don't know why we're both so often dreaming of them...but I do know that since biblical times -- God has used our dreams to convey His messages.
Summer, Wow, it's amazing that you are dreaming so much about your xH. I sure hope that there is an imminent change in your life which involves your H. And maybe God is telling you of the imminent change in your life ahead of time....

I definitely agree that God uses dreams to tell us things.

I am praying the prayers from Scripture that Charlyne shared the past 2 days. I am thinking you might find them helpful too, especially in the light of all these dreams about your xH. Could God be leading you to pray even harder than before for your xH to come home? Just a thought...


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Hey MWG,

Thanks so much for thinking of me. I haven't seen my neighbor except his car driving by on Sat. But I didn't actually see him.

I do feel lousy about the uncomfortable situation and I don't like the alternate route much. I have to go through a parking lot which I don't feel comfortable about. I am also afraid of him catching me in the alley way to the parking lot... I will try to figure something out.

I have been reading about you and your H. I am so glad that he's been so helpful with things and been nice to you. I know God is working behind the scenes.


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Thanks, PH!

Our sheltie seems to be doing much better, too. H asked me the other night about her dying and I said yes, she could have very easily died according to the vet. I think that would have affected him greatly but he chose to get her treated and found out her condition was much worse than he could have ever thought it was. I am still giving her about 8 pills per day until they run out.


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