Try not to bit the bullet or as they say here take the bait.
It is much easier to let go of someone if you act like you hate them & make their life a living hell. I look at my own past relationships (that had gotten really serious) & I'm not friends with any of them. Much easier to detach with anger.
I do still love my H. I've decided to take a different path & not get angry with him. I think I'll go put on my tie die & frolic through a field of daises now <lol>
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)