Hi Dr. T2L, you can create a new career for yourself. You could be an official DB counseling coach. I think your stich is so positive. Sometimes I persue other stichs and there is more hopelessness than this one! we rule...lol
All, read your post. My first thought also is that your H could be have a sex addiction. I agree about porn also that it is not a turn on but another type of cheating. Make sure that you feel confident enough to say no if your H wants to do something that you do not feel good about. Set your own boundaries. Then you can work on restoring your M.
{{{{Marisol}}}} we missed you girl. Packed up your house? ouch that takes forever. Your H is starting to feel the pain out in the real world. Like you -- I took care of everything. That was one of the biggest issues of my M. I took care of H for everything and finally felt like his mother and I think he started thinking about me that way also. Stop worrying where he is going to go and worry about setting up your own place. You had to downsize because of his actions and you managed to get a place, pack, and pay for it. Time for him to crash and burn which might make him appreciate you more.
H called me again this afternoon and never picked up. He called our D28 and told her he wanted to take D15 to counseling. My D told him that your really messed up our family by your actions. No comment. D15 was in a pep rally parade tonight for her soccer team. I know he did not even know about it. Missing her life - missing life. See what tomorrow brings, see if I can do slight dbing. Lets all do well tomorrow and check in. take care.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
