We could get one of those front license plates that says "House Divided". FWIW, I like Auburn a heckuva lot better than "Bama."
BTW, I lived in Dothan for a couple of years; so I know that Bama/Auburn is a State Holiday.
As far as how I feel. I feel good about being D'd. I've discovered that I can be happy by myself and that I still have some appeal to the fairer sex. The ego boost is good; but really it's the feeling that I'm getting myself back again. I think I let myself get consumed into being a father/husband that I became controlling, for fear that I would lose being both of them. but what I have realized is that it was unattractive. Not that my W might not have done what she's done anyway; but I definitely needed to recover myself. I liken it to how the disease of alcoholism affects the whole family. Her crazy affected me and turned me into a different crazy. Now I'm escaping that and it feels good.
Not turning away from the M; but accepting the reality that I might have to. My only real fear at the moment is the unexpected, mainly of what she might do to get what she wants. but until I'm faced with it; I prepare for the worst and hope for the best.
