You could say that it is best to turn your back put your foot down, but then who's standards are you living by?
I have found it is best to do what's in your heart regardless of what the other person is doing.
We have to remember when a person is in crisis they are not rational. When someone is in deep depression they can be paralyzed to act they can also be paralyzed from doing the right thing when they know in their heart they are wrong.
This is where God must take over. One cannot make another do or think what we want them too. Let God work on your h.
It's up to the strong spouse to be supportive, loving, and kind.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"