God grant me the patience and the strength...8

[theotherhalf]

Sun night thru Thurs night H works 10pm to 6am. He stops here some morninggs after work. Hangs out for about an hour. Then home to sleep. Don't know what he does during the day and evenings other than sleep and stop out here to do chores.

Friday night's he usually goes up to his BIL's and hangs out. He says he goes home anywhere from 9:30 to 10:30. But usually looks pretty rough come Sat am so I wonder if he really does go home or if he's had company. OW works one week Sat-Tues 6am to 6pm, Wed 6am to noon. And the next week Mon, Tues 6am to 6pm, Wed 6am to noon. So she is off Wed, Thurs, and Fri. So who know's what is really going on.

And for awhile lwb, it really was driving me crazy. But isn't that where "letting go" comes in to play. There is nothing I can do to stop him or change what he is doing. So I have to let it go.

A good friend told me today but TOH, this is the first time he's really opened the door some, and she's right, patience maybe, patience...