is that I won't allow that scumbag to have any serious role in my S's lives. I don't respect any home-wrecking slimeball like that, and I don't expect my S's to have any respect for a man who would not only help break up his own family's home, but their family as well.
I don't blame you. xH knows VERY well that the kids will not be around 'former' OW. Ever. And OW's H is in full agreement (if they end up together) about his kids too. Its disgusting, their low morals, and I don't want the kids around that. Nor does OW *deserve* to be around such wonderful kids as my own.
Now....if for some reason.......OW and xH end up together, and this goes down...there is nothing I can do about it. Our kids aren't old enough to understand any of this, so they won't be told anything though.
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Now some of you probably think I am way off base on this point.
Not me!
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Right now I'd be willing to part with the 15k just to have her out of my life, with her having no strings attached to me whatsoever.
Exactly why I didn't fight xH when he asked me for part of my retirement.
Sorry you had to sign the papers. Nocode, do you stand to gain any money from the closing on this house? Will you help your situation at all? I sure hope so!
