I do feel so bad for her. The one thing I keep reminding myself is she is in a lot pain. She does a pretty good job at hiding it, but its there, you can't hide things like that with someone so close to you.
She has been very selfish and angry at times but I try my best to remind myself that she is confused and dealing with her emotions the only way she knows how.
I really think she is affraid to tell anyone about whats really going on inside of her and we thought we were lonely.