I have set boundaries as far as her not talking to or seeing OM, and I am free to check her phone and call records when I choose.
badcompany - Just reading your sitch but figured I could toss this out there because it caught my eye. Call records and texts can easly be deleted from the phone. You need to bill to see call records. Also, there could be fake name programmed with dudes numbers. Be careful, this may be her trying to win your trust while being deceitful.
