I got rid of everything old girlfriends got me, when I got married. Rings, bracelets, photos, other gifts. Am I weird?
I don't think you are weird. I got rid of 99% of everything my Old GF and X wife got me. This was long forgotten. Wife was the one who found it in son’s room. I actually like the bracelet. Not because of who gave it to me. It's a nice silver bracelet. I will ask wife how she would feel if I wore it. I will tell her to be honest with me because it's not really a big deal who gave it to me. It's just a nice bracelet. She said it would bother her then in the G can it goes.... Sorry you all are having a hard time understanding what I am trying to say. It is no big deal if I wear it or not but if it does not bother wife why not wear it?\ Confused or not. Wife had not made any attempts on her own to work on our marriage. When I asked her not to talk to OM she refused.. that was a year ago. I have not even asked her if she still does talk to me but come on people. Most of you are acting like she is totally happy being married single.
It’s almost like fighting a war with a terrorist that has a bomb tyed around them. How to you deal with someone who for all intent and purpose does not care if they die or not. You can’t win. Like a Japanese kamikaze pilot. You can shoot all you want,
Don’t get me wrong I still want to try to fix the marriage but,,,,YES I know there are positives but just positives in reaction to what I have done none on her own… It amazes me if she would only on her own come up to me a just give me one kiss. I would be in heaven or weeks…………
Me
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
