well I got a phone call today, she just wanted to know if I'd look into finding a mediator, My lawyer already has this setup, appaprently she's too busy to read her mail. I tell ya it was kind of a letdown, I had about 1000 thoughts running through my head all weekend, but I guess I always knew it wasn't going to be anything more than about money, It makes me upset with myself that I could get this worked up over a stupid text message and voicemail!!!! So I suppose it's back to the no contact thing again until our mediation date, Time to get back on that detaching horse and not fall off this time.