hey, jak, yes I did tell him I know about the calls, I looked at his cell phone right in front of him and there it was, ow #.

I stopped, looked at him, and he said what? I said I see you have been calling someone you are not supposed to be calling again. He said all is not what it seems here. I said well no contact MEANS no contact!! He repeated his comment, and I just looked at him and went away. So, yes, he knows I know.

Things are not awful right now, and we are getting along so much better than before. I really think he is struggling with himself, and I do think there could be a spiritual struggle going on, too.
I can only stand by, watch, and give my support to the survival of our marriage.

L