MC,

My W has seen a lawyer a couple times. Got a total bullchit letter the first time (move out in a week or we will force you, if you move you will be able to see the K's, give me 75% of net pay). Second time was again cr@p. Now she appears to be avoiding. Whatever happens, KEEP CALM! Nothing ever was finalized over night.

Unfortunately, my W's L has not (it appears) talked any facts with her - financial is NON EXISTENT, and that is a hard cold reality.

Very important to remember the 24 / 48 hour rule (whatever you prefer). Do not react to anything - take the time to assess the sitch and then ACT as opposed to react.

OK to be here... just not with W, ok?

And, IMO, she is really worried about the journal...

LIS

M45
WW 43
D17/S14/D11

ILYB Jan 08
PA Conf Feb 08
OMW / OM contacted
S Jan / 09

No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.