JA called my cell tonight and left a couple of messages saying he was trying to call the house to talk to the boys but my phone wasn't working.

This isn't the first time he has said this. So I called my house with my cell phone and had no problem, plus I received other calls tonight too.

I do not have his number blocked and it only happens sometimes when he calls.

Anyway, he finally gets a hold of us on the house phone. He accused me of having his number blocked and I told him I didn't and if that was the case how come he can call other times.

His tone got nice and he asked to talk to the boys. I said to him jokingly that maybe he could tell S4 also that oreo cookies are not for dinner and if he wanted an oreo he had to eat his dinner first.

JA starts screaming and says: You can't do this to me! You can't take custody away from me and then expect me to step in and be their father!

I told him to go to h^ll and hung up.

I then had the boys call him.

I know I shouldn't of but I TM'd him "Thanks again for reminding me why I have sole custody."

When he got off the phone with the boys he TM back "What are you gonna do when they are old enough to tell you off? When you cant control them anymore? When they realize why I left you?

Nice, huh?

I haven't TM him back.

He still blames me for everything. So now he thinks when the boys are old enough they will hate me and realize why he left me.

Am I that bad of a person? He can't see that it might just end up being the other way around?


Me:35, ex: 36
Sons: 9 & 7
Bomb: July, 2006
Divorced 2009