Hey there COG,

Yesterday I went to a Salsa workshop. 4 hrs of training. Holy crap...my feet are sore.

Gave the W a quick call yesterday, we are going to catch up for dinner on Wednesday. I will have to give her a list of things to do while I'm away for my month long trip to Nepal. She will have to feed the kitties, water the garden, collect mail, pay bills etc. She will be fine with all that. She's a great girl.

I don't know if I have given up actively DBing now...or if it is just natural for me and I don't have to think about it anymore.
We haven't had any negitivity in months now......but things are just status quo.
When we went out last week, I told her that I don't have any plans on how to move forward and haven't given much thought on what I'm going to do. I said that I guess she is probably in the same situation...and she agreed. I think we are both kinda crusing along not knowing what's going to happen.

I'm really detaching well though....as is she.
Don't know what this means or where it's going.

"Que Sera Sera"


H - 39
W - 38
M - 10 years, Dated 1
LYBNILWY - 5/17/2008
Moved out - 5/18/08
no kids - 2 cats