all I ever wanted in this deal was an opportunity to exist where we knew the issues. she literally quit cold turkey. I have heard the reasons change like the wind. If she did flip and change her mind, i think it would take awhile of 'trying' before I totally put all my chips back in the middle. All I wanted to do was to 'find out' if what we knew now would change things. Her quitting cold turkey is going to emphasize the crappy deal she's going to end up with. If we went through a 'trying' phase and both agreed at the end that it wont work, then I'm sure I would have been much more amicable at the end. But being the way it is now, I'm going to totally protect myself and my kids. She's going to be a hot head about it I'm sure...because her divorced buddies got everything they wanted in their divorces from their husbands....it's going to be quite different here.
