I am admitting I am backsliding with great velocity, and I need to stop. I have set boundaries as far as her not talking to or seeing OM, and I am free to check her phone and call records when I choose.

I am asking for advice on how to put some distance between us, just enough to get her to really see I'm not messing around. I don't accept all invites, but most.

On the plus side, she went back to church for the first time since the bomb :-)

Baby steps


M 31 W 26
M 6
S 6 S 3
Separated 6/2008
Back together 10/2008
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