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(((((((Lisa)))))))

I think staying quiet for the time being makes sense. I don't think I can see anything to be gained by initiating contact right now.

If you were visiting Arizona, you'd probably need to take those wooly fluffy socks off! It is still getting up to about 30C during the day. Though down to about 15 at night. So you might want to wear them to bed.....

Multi-millionaire! And that's in pounds! I'm feeling somehow inadequate, just now!

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I don't think money's the be all and end all. You have a veritable hareem AND 4 strapping lads to your name. That's worth more than all the wealth in Microsoft!

Thanks for the H advice- I really appreciate it, and I agree. I don't think it'll help anything right now. Might aswell watch and wait.

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If you were visiting Arizona, you'd probably need to take those wooly fluffy socks off!

You're going to have to stop with the naughty talk Jeff. Take my socks off indeed. One thing leads to another...... and bed talk too. Phew, is it me, or is it getting hot around here?

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You've been so busy with work, I wasn't sure you'd notice! \:\)

No, money isn't everything, not at all. But it seems he has a lot of other good qualities, too! So, it certainly doesn't hurt, in his case.

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((((Jeff))))) I always notice what you do!! If only Tucson was 3000 miles closer!

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HBi Lisa... I agree with Jeff.. stay dark. You have some power right now, if you break that just for a little bit of temporary contact, you wont know. I had to do it in September.. turns out he was seeing someone, so the sitch had changed. I dont know what his NC means, but theres only one way of finding out... keep quiet.

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CEO is a multi-millionaire!

Had a bit of an attack of butterflies (or lust, I think you could call it) when I saw CEO walking down the corridor this morning in his jeans.

Then he told me about a woman he'd been speaking to on Saturday who he'd told that he really wanted to have children

Thought it was interestin and slightly dirty that CEOs thoughts went straight to naughtiness when there was good old British toilet humour to be had.

Ok, its official. You're crazy. You need carting off with the men in white coats. If I were you, I'd have probably moved in with him by now and the cat and would be leafing through holiday/mothercare brochures.

Seriously.. the universe sends you this man and you are not taking the bait !????

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Happy Thursday lovely lady! Just dropping by to wish you well and let you know I'm hoping you find a job opportunity soon.

Take care!


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Nice to see you. I've just had my notice of redundancy so am feeling a bit down. *sigh* Just feeling a bit tired of all this- the M, DBing H, the job situation, my family stuff. What can you do, I suppose. Start looking for jobs. Not think about H or my family. Still, it's so annoying.

CEO's given up the ghost on flirting and no word from H- that's over 2 weeks NC and it's a record for us. Let's hope he's doing some good thinking. I was thinking about clearing some room at hope yesterday and saw that he still has 6 pairs of shoes there (and a ton of other stuff). I guess he's just forgotten about all of it. Who knows.

Hope you guys are all OK.

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Do something cathartic! Box up all of his stuff that is cluttering your house and put it away. If you want to be extra bold and push this to the next step send him an email letting him know that you have x number of boxes of your stuff that I will leave on the porch for you to pick up. If you would prefer, I could donate it to the local shelter.

I know, sounds witchy, but you aren't his storage facility. He should keep his crud in his darned cave with him. \:\)

CEO not flirting makes sense. I'm sure he's in a lot of turmoil right now with the company going down so fast. Give him time. Smile big and put the girls out front and center. He'll come back around (if that is what you want).


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Sorry you are a bit down! I'd like to help pick you up!

CEO will get his flirt back on. If you are feeling down, imagine what he is feeling? I can't help but think he is taking the downfall of the company personally, even if there was really nothing that could be done.

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Do something cathartic!

Like come to Arizona! It's not windy, and cloudy, and cold here!

There was a big rattlesnake on the road the other night. Probably 4 or 5 feet long. S20 took a pic, I need him to email it to me! Hmmmm, I hope the snake talk doesn't scare you off! ;\)

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