Glad to see the our posting is still going! I had to catch up! These past few weekends have been hard for me to keep up since I will be moving on Friday. I know...Halloween!!! Boy this is going to be fun! I had to get a smaller place that was less in rent because I was sinking fast. It's good though. We can get a dog which is what my daughter has been asking for these past few years. I told her it was going to be an early xmas present and probably not much else with things being pretty tight having to move. She understood of course.
Ok so everyone give me your opinion on something that happened this weekend....
Saturday night at 1:45am my H texts me and here is the convo -
H - You at any big Halloween parties tonight? me - No. Just laying in bed. Can't sleep. U? (i should have told him i was but didn't think of it until after) H - Just got back from a friends party...pretty boring..going to bed now..if I dont get 2000 by tomorrow i have to move out...things are getting scary!! can't believe how much i depended on you!! me - where will you go? H - Dont know? probably have to get an apartment somewhere...S14 will probably go live with his mom... me - i never meant for you to depend on me so much. i truly thought i was helping you get started in your career. thats all i ever wanted. H - i know..no big deal...all learning for me! its good for me..well good night...i'm exhausted. me - i bet a full body back rub would be nice right now huh? (i know stupid thing to say but he loves them) H - yeah...but that's not reality...goodnight me - good night scott
I check the phone records the next day and after he text me he text the OW like 10 times until 3:45am and she did not respond to him.
So he is very bad financially right now. Long story short he is a realtor. He had his own franchise but it went under in August. He left that company last Monday and now is trying to make it on his own. He is jobless right now and is negative in the bank. He is living in one of his dad's rental properties but I know his dad & wife will not put up much longer for him to not pay rent. I know he has borrowed money from every possible person. I'm thinking if it doesn't go well he will end up living with his mom in the mobile home she rents that is in a retirement community. I know the OW has paid his car payment for this month and probably some other things.
What is your take on this? Any advice would be helpful....you all are the best at it!!
Me35/H35 D16/SS14 M-1yr/known H 18yrs 1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35 2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21 Moved out 8/21/08 H filed D on 9/9/08
God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.
