What do you think you could do differently that would possibly catch his attention? What would be a real 180 for the sitch?
Hmm. I've been going crazy trying to figure that one out too. I have always worked out and dressed nice. I keep that up.
The few times we saw our therapist after the bomb he compared me to his girl friends. "They are always happy", he says. "They don't bring work home or their problems home". He also said that he wanted to be with someone who wanted to go out and try new things. This really got me b/c I was the one who complained all through counseling that he never wanted to do anything and he would say that all he wanted to do was stay home but then complain that I wouldn't invite him.
So, I am happy all the time. I never argue with him. I still give my opinion however my approach is different. I invite him out. I do not pressure or pursue and I have my own life.
We went from friends to friendly. He only desires to sit at home ALL day (he is in between the Navy and the CHP Academy) and email her and sit at home ALL night and have IM conversations well into the night. Of course he claims they are just friends.
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