I have not said anything to him yet. I went to Wichita for a night, and when I got back, I didn't feel so weird with him, so I think the time away helped. I've told him before why it hurts my feelings, but I think he's figuring I have no idea he has them. What's really upsetting is that I've sent him pics of ME, and they are not there, just those disgusting ones of oversized boobies!
I watch the kids so much, I'm not sure how he would think this would take away too much time, unless it's more HE'S having to watch them more. They are hard to deal with sometimes, and kids can be stressful. So it's not like he doesn't want to be around them, but he lets them get to him too easily. But, your probably right. I'll see what happens after we start meeting.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."